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# The Gray: A Relationship Etiquette Study (BEREOLAESQUE)

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desertcart.com: The Gray: A Relationship Etiquette Study (BEREOLAESQUE): 9780692809174: Bereola II, Enitan O., Estelle, Jidenna: Books

Review: Written to make you heal - Written with intention. Written to make you think. Written to make you feel. Written to make you question. Written to wake you up to the lessons. Written to make you reflect. Written to show you your worth. Written to make you set higher standards. Written to make you want it all, but only when it's right. Written to make you step your game up. Written to make you heal. "When literature literally heals you, please understand it is crafted to." This book is art - the cover and the words beyond it. This book is a necessary relationship and inner self reality check. Starting with the prelude, this book is a journey through the connections we establish with ourselves and with the world around us. I was compelled to take a deep look at my daily practices and routines and my unhealthy habits that I have made excuses not to change. More than anything, I was taken on a journey through the roller coaster of emotions that came with my relationship with my first love. I feel like The Gray helped me make sense of the chaos. It helped me stop asking questions that I was not going to get answers to. It shed light on how much of my behavior is escape maintained and how escapism is not a sustainable. The Gray helped me understand past relationships, heal my heart, and realize that I'll always feel stuck in the same place if I don't take action to move forward. Thank you for this gift Mr. Bereola.
Review: Life Defining! - Where do I begin? First, prior to even opening the book, the cover engulfs you with an array of colors provoking, simultaneously, and array of thoughts an emotions. Second, the writing is impeccable. Using poetry and imagery to describe a relationship we have all seen in one form or another, with hopes of shedding light on patterns and behaviors that we all need to face and break. I found myself in her. I cried and hurt when she did. I dove into each chapter with expectancy of revelations, and as Elizabeth Gilbert has said, if you go on a search, preaparing yourself to face and forgive some very honest truths about yourself, then the truth will not be withheld. I found my truth and found my love. I found my search and found the end of this chapter and the beginning of my own. While reading this amazing honest and poetic book, I allowed the inspiration I encountered to pour and run over into my life, in my own book, my own poetry, and my own, newly reconciled and strengthened relationship. I'm not sure if I have ever connected so much or so deeply to one literary work; but there is a first time for everything. This work was right on time. It saved my sanity. And no... I was not paid for this review.

## Technical Specifications

| Specification | Value |
|---------------|-------|
| Best Sellers Rank | #2,063,716 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #574 in Etiquette Guides & Advice #5,307 in Creativity (Books) |
| Book 3 of 3  | BEREOLAESQUE |
| Customer Reviews | 4.7 4.7 out of 5 stars (136) |
| Dimensions  | 6 x 0.63 x 9 inches |
| ISBN-10  | 0692809171 |
| ISBN-13  | 978-0692809174 |
| Item Weight  | 13.1 ounces |
| Language  | English |
| Print length  | 250 pages |
| Publication date  | December 29, 2016 |
| Publisher  | The Bereolaesque Group |

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## Customer Reviews

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Written to make you heal
*by T***A on April 11, 2017*

Written with intention. Written to make you think. Written to make you feel. Written to make you question. Written to wake you up to the lessons. Written to make you reflect. Written to show you your worth. Written to make you set higher standards. Written to make you want it all, but only when it's right. Written to make you step your game up. Written to make you heal. "When literature literally heals you, please understand it is crafted to." This book is art - the cover and the words beyond it. This book is a necessary relationship and inner self reality check. Starting with the prelude, this book is a journey through the connections we establish with ourselves and with the world around us. I was compelled to take a deep look at my daily practices and routines and my unhealthy habits that I have made excuses not to change. More than anything, I was taken on a journey through the roller coaster of emotions that came with my relationship with my first love. I feel like The Gray helped me make sense of the chaos. It helped me stop asking questions that I was not going to get answers to. It shed light on how much of my behavior is escape maintained and how escapism is not a sustainable. The Gray helped me understand past relationships, heal my heart, and realize that I'll always feel stuck in the same place if I don't take action to move forward. Thank you for this gift Mr. Bereola.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Life Defining!
*by C***C on January 11, 2017*

Where do I begin? First, prior to even opening the book, the cover engulfs you with an array of colors provoking, simultaneously, and array of thoughts an emotions. Second, the writing is impeccable. Using poetry and imagery to describe a relationship we have all seen in one form or another, with hopes of shedding light on patterns and behaviors that we all need to face and break. I found myself in her. I cried and hurt when she did. I dove into each chapter with expectancy of revelations, and as Elizabeth Gilbert has said, if you go on a search, preaparing yourself to face and forgive some very honest truths about yourself, then the truth will not be withheld. I found my truth and found my love. I found my search and found the end of this chapter and the beginning of my own. While reading this amazing honest and poetic book, I allowed the inspiration I encountered to pour and run over into my life, in my own book, my own poetry, and my own, newly reconciled and strengthened relationship. I'm not sure if I have ever connected so much or so deeply to one literary work; but there is a first time for everything. This work was right on time. It saved my sanity. And no... I was not paid for this review.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ So On point! Wordplay is amazing
*by D***H on October 9, 2022*

I am still reading this book and will be updating my review but for now—-it is so relevant and so accurate! I appreciate how it is written and broken down so eloquently! Update: I just completed the book and overall I like it a lot! Definitely dropped some gems but I truly respect and appreciate the authenticity of the message as well as the storyline. So many things people feel but do not say and do not process. This author says the raw truth and then processes it in his “Specifications”! So thank you! I look forward to reading the next book :-)

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